gray lensman wrote:
Doesn't matter, I have a really thick skin. Couple that with the fact that I REALLY do not care what other people think and none of it matters.
I don't think that's a very good attitude to have when you're looking for opinions from other people. It does seem that you don't even acknowledge that your behaviour can even be interpreted to be "passive-aggressive", and that you don't really give a damn that you've lost a player. Having a "screw 'em, they can go to hell" attitude (as someone else said on rpgnet) towards your own gaming group is not healthy.
As an aside: The only place I actually got the type of suggestions I was really looking for was at COTI (except for Kilgs at RPG.NET)
This doesn't surprise me - IMO many people on CotI don't seem to be experienced enough roleplayers to see the bigger picture. One person there even claimed that they thought the person who left your group was "afraid of change", which is an utterly ridiculous thing to say IMO. As you said later, they left because they didn't like Traveller.
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